Saturday, August 3, 2013

Summer 2012 Shenanigans!

Ready for the neighborhood 4th of July Parade!







At the San Antonio Riverwalk - 4th of July


Fireworks viewed from the roof of our hotel!  Very Cool!






THE ALAMO!!

Sariah's one-handed cartwheel at the Alamo - it was a great desire for her to do this!





Learning how to rescue marine mammals - Galveston TX Aug 2nd



Funny how the marine mammal looks human!  LOL!!

Dude!  What a loggerhead!

NOAA Turtle hatchery for the TED program

hatchlings for the Turtle Extraction Device testing systems

Saturday, May 25, 2013

DOG PARK!!

Found a great dog park to visit, and Jetta loves it!

 Shelby diving into pool
Puppy Pool - the labs and other water dogs love this.  I was also surprised to see a few American Pit bulls and terriers in the water, but it is Houston and it is HOT!







Bill Archer Dog Park Photo 2
 15 acres of free roaming puppy fun!


First thing - she ran to the end fence (about 2 acres away).

Thanks goodness for a big zoom lens or we'd never see her!





It's so fun to visit with other pet owners and see our dogs have a blast!

Gorgeous Husky chases with Jetta

Jetta plays with a Great Dane/Greyhound mix.





Yes, the Bark Park has a shower station and we took full advantage to clean our muddy pup.  She had  a fabulous nap that afternoon!


Sunday, May 19, 2013

Patience, New and Newer!

The Power of Patience!

There are too many similarities between training dogs and guiding children.  Two of the largest similarities is that of repetition and of patience, both of which work so well together.

Repetition:  The 4-year old who asks everyday just before dinner, "Mom, can I have a cookie?" will do so for six months until they have sufficiently trained YOU to stick with your guns and always reply, "Yes, you may have a cookie, but after dinner.  While you wait, would you like to help me make the salad?"  It may take the entire six months before the toddler feels the parents are sufficiently trained and then will move on to asking "Mom, may I have ice cream?".  <Cue Patience!> 

Patience:  Dogs are all about immediate gratification.  They don't care about waiting.  For example, they see the leash and know IT is the device that opens that front door to the world of walks. So, let's make it happen as soon as possible!  If I run around and charge toward the door, she'll certainly put that magical door opening device on me and off we'll go!  Pet owners - sound familiar?  Sheesh!  Drives me nuts trying to get the dog to chill and be still so I can attach the stinkin' leash and get them on their merry way!!  <cue Patience>  Now the routine goes like this: Hey puppy, see this leash, well, it won't even go into my hand until your cute little tush is planted on the ground.  Oops, I see you stood up, so now I need to put the leash back.  We'll try again in a little while.  In the meantime, I'm going to go get my sunglasses.  I'm back again.  Are you sitting?  Yes!  Here's the leash, and oh, too bad, your tush is off the ground again.  Oh well.  We'll wait.  Time for me to check my phone messages.  Oh, only two - this won't be long.  And thus it goes until the pup understands that leash = tush on floor. <cue Repetition>

This circular cycle of patience and repetition is spiraling out of control in our lives.  Patience did help me solve a mystery of a broken drawer in our master bathroom.  Repetition has prevented many headaches from recurring (by there are several new sources from whence headaches spring!).  I love this tutoring session given me by a wise and all-knowing Father who (I'm sure) chuckles each time I learn a little more about His view of my life.  Now the routine goes like this: Hey Tami, see this blessing, well it is in my hand ready to give to you if you will but reach to me for it.  Oh, too bad, I see you are reaching sideways and not up.  I'll hold this wonderful blessing until you can reach up.  Oh, you're back again.  Great!  Yes!  Here's the blessing and there you go looking down.  But I'm up here, waiting, beckoning.  I'll wait.  And thus it goes until I understand that blessings = looking to God to live. <cue humility and love>

New

I love to have order and checked-off lists.  The peace I get from it is hard to explain.  So when something new comes into my home, my closet, my purse....I immediately categorize it, assign it a place and, without hesitation, get rid of old stuff to make room for the new item.  Our move to Texas six months ago (wow, it's really been six months), has challenged me for peace and order.  Some days I glance around the house and feel everything is good in the world.  No clutter.  Nothing out of sorts.  The home functions and flows easily.  Other days, I see a box tucked in a closet and think - really? I thought we got rid of all of you.  Dare I open it and then have to deal with it's contents or push it aside for another day?  Obviously there's room on this closet shelf for it, so it's just fine.  Buuuut, that need for orderliness kicks in and I open the box.  I usually find books.  Makes me want to scream.  Don't misunderstand, I love books, but why couldn't this house come with at least ONE built-in bookshelf?!  There are none and hardly any available wall space to place a shelf.  These newer homes are all angles and open design, that a bookshelf seems intrusive in most places.  There are plenty of TV niches (whatever!) and zero happy places for books.  So, I'm back to making lists of things that money can't afford yet and wishing for some ingenuity to create bookshelves out of packing boxes!  In the meantime, I braved the man-cave and finally (with the help of some amazing Maloney girls) parked two cars in our garage.  I feel a little more peaceful just thinking about it. 

Newer

I'm unsure how other people feel about this, but I feel quite pigeon-holed in my church responsibilities. Most of the time, we expect and are prepared to serve in our local congregations or wards as teachers, leaders, auxiliary support...  Then, there are those times when we are asked to serve in a Stake position (Stake is a grouping of wards.  Wards typically have 300-350 members.  A Stake may have 8-12 wards or 2,400 to 4,200 members).  In Georgia, I was blessed to work in the Stake Young Women assisting the planning of events, activities, celebrations and camps for 500+ young women ages 12-18 in the Roswell, GA area.  I worked with some amazing women who taught me much at my young age and guided my mothering of my small children.  The energy and vitality of the youth was electrifying which was good, because meeting the needs of all those youth was daunting!  In Alabama, I worked with the Cultural Arts committee assisting in the planning of events, activities and celebrations for 3,800 members!  Sometimes the activity would be for the adults only and we would plan for 400-500 and other times it was open to the community and we would just hope it all worked out.  Later, I worked with the Public Affairs Council of the Madison AL Stake and enjoyed community outreach and media relations with groups in Northern Alabama. 

Most recently I've been called to work as the Director of Public Affairs for the Cypress Texas Stake which is a part of the Houston Coordinating Council. 

Daunting is a mild description of the weight of responsibility I feel.  I am blessed to be a part of a wonderful council who has their act together and loves the Lord and His work.  I am humbled to be with them.

Some of the items with which the Cypress TX Stake Public Affairs Council is tasked:
  • Building relationships with community leaders and organization to strengthen our community.
  • Encouraging inter-faith relations focusing on those things that unify us, for there is more that unifies us than divides.
  • Assisting the Stake President as spokesperson for the Church in this area.
  • Establishing community service with organizations and groups that meet the needs of the poor in our area.
  • Correcting, when needed, media reports or other misinformation about the Church, it's teachings, practices and stance.
  • Unifying our relief efforts to provide world-wide assistance.
Here's my reply:


  • Proverbs 3:5

    Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.  In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
  • Psalms 142:1

     I cried unto the Lord with my voice; with my voice unto the Lord did I make my supplication.




Sunday, May 5, 2013

Much Ado About Nothing

Nathan and McKenna joined the Deseret Homeschool Group's production of Much Ado About Nothing.  McKenna played Hero and Nathan played her father, Leonato.


















Sunday, April 21, 2013

Riding Competition and BlueBell 10k









McKenna was THRILLED to participate in a riding competition sponsored by Cypress Riding Academy.  She entered six events and placed in three of them.  She rode three different horses and did the best in "Keyhole" which is a timed straight-stretch through a gate, around a pole and back through the gate.  The horses do not want to go through the gate (it's a fairly narrow opening), so the rider has to maintain control of the animal to stay on the course as well as whip around the pole at the opposite end of the field and then gallop back through the same gate.  She placed 2nd out of 8 competitors! 


The record sheet shows Nathan as runner #705, age 16, male and placing SEVENTH in his age group (ages 13-19).  He completed the race in 53:45 - which averages to an 8 1/2 minute mile!!!  This was his first race ever - I'm so pleased for him!!

He ran through the "hill country" in Brenham, TX and saw so many fields of blue bonnets - it was breathtaking!  Then at the finish line, he proceeded to eat his entry fee of $28 in BlueBell ice cream bars!!  So nice to break even!  Gotta love this race!!

Sunday, April 14, 2013

183rd Annual General Conference April 6-7, 2013

Pretty amazing to think that any organization has enjoyed 183 annual conferences!  The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has and will continue to do so until the return of the Savior, and maybe even after that, too!

Highlight #1:  The talk about Marriage by Elder L. Whitney Clayton of the Quorum of the Seventy.

He outlines five principles that are common to all successful, strong and satisfying marriages.

1) "In the happiest marriages both the husband and wife consider their relationship to be a pearl beyond price, a treasure of infinite worth.  The best marriage partners regard their marriages as priceless."

2)  "Faith is the foundation of every virtue that strengthens marriage. Strengthening faith strengthens marriage. Faith grows as we keep the commandments, and so do the harmony and joy in marriage."

3) "Humility means that both husbands and wives seek to bless, help, and lift each other, putting the other first in every decision."

4) "Where there is respect, there is also transparency, which is a key element of happy marriages. There are no secrets about relevant matters in marriages based on mutual respect and transparency. Loyalty is a form of respect. They keep their social media use fully worthy in every way. They permit themselves no secret Internet experiences. They freely share with each other their social network passwords. They do not look at the virtual profiles of anyone in any way that might betray the sacred trust of their spouse. They never do or say anything that approaches the appearance of impropriety, either virtually or physically."

5)  “Thou shalt love thy wife with all thy heart, and shalt cleave unto her and none else.”9 A Church handbook teaches: “The word cleave means to be completely devoted and faithful to someone. Married couples cleave to God and one another by serving and loving each other and by keeping covenants in complete fidelity to one another and to God.”

He concludes with this amazing reminder of the real organization of a marriage:  " Marriage is a gift from God to us; the quality of our marriages is a gift from us to Him."


Highlight #2:  Talks about virtue, chastity and righteousness. 

"In a morally desensitizing world, young women need women and men to “stand as witnesses of God at all times and in all things, and in all places.” Never before has this been more important than now. Young women need mothers and mentors who exemplify virtuous womanhood. Mothers, your relationship with your daughter is of paramount importance, and so is your example. How you love and honor her father, his priesthood, and his divine role will be reflected and perhaps amplified in your daughter’s attitudes and behavior.

Again I renew the call for a return to virtue. Virtue is the strength and power of daughters of God. What would the world be like if virtue—a pattern of thought and behavior based on high moral standards, including chastity—were reinstated in our society as a most highly prized value? If immorality, pornography, and abuse decreased, would there be fewer broken marriages, broken lives, and broken hearts? Would media ennoble and enable rather than objectify and degrade God’s precious daughters? If all humanity really understood the importance of the statement “We are daughters of our Heavenly Father,” how would women be regarded and treated? "  Elaine S. Dalton

"The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints has a single, undeviating standard of sexual morality: intimate relations are proper only between a man and a woman in the marriage relationship prescribed in God’s plan. Such relations are not merely a curiosity to be explored, an appetite to be satisfied, or a type of recreation or entertainment to be pursued selfishly. They are not a conquest to be achieved or simply an act to be performed. Rather, they are in mortality one of the ultimate expressions of our divine nature and potential and a way of strengthening emotional and spiritual bonds between husband and wife. We are agents blessed with moral agency and are defined by our divine heritage as children of God—and not by sexual behaviors, contemporary attitudes, or secular philosophies."  Elder David A. Bednar


"We earnestly hope and pray for universal peace, but it is as individuals and families that we achieve the kind of peace that is the promised reward of righteousness. This peace is a promised gift of the Savior’s mission and atoning sacrifice."  Elder Quentin L. Cook

Highlight #3:  Talks about belief verses knowledge, obedience, Jesus Christ and His teachings, and becoming followers of Christ.

Highlight #4: The spiritual and temporal FEAST of Conference Weekend!!!





Plus, sitting at the TV for 4 hours on Saturday and 4 hours on Sunday gives Sariah plenty of time to practice new hair styles.  The first one above is McKenna's creation - the braided ponytail bun.  The next photo is Sariah's first attempt at fish-tail braids.  She did AWESOME!!